How to interact with an aspiring medium

From the point of view of the aspiring medium:

1. Aspiring medium by birth

Most of the time, when the aspiring medium evolves in a "traditional" family or context, a non-medium family, the aspiring medium feels misunderstood, isolated, and even rejected.

For aspiring mediums with a birth gift, from the time they are very young, around 4/5 years old, they already start to perceive things, visual or auditory flashes, sometimes extreme feelings. His perceptions at this stage being natural do not really need to be communicated because for them it is like, seeing, listening, touching, and feeling.

They conclude that everyone experiences things in the same way as they do and do not ask themselves too many questions. They will be able to talk about their flashes in some cases, but at that age, they will not be taken seriously because their parents may conclude that it is a matter of their infantile overactive imagination.

Ex: seeing a dead person = imaginary friend (very common for children of this age)

Then comes pre-adolescence and adolescence where the aspiring medium starts to make friends and starts to talk to his entourage of the same age about his activities... It is at this precise moment that he/she can realize that he/she is not like the others in terms of his/her psychic faculties.

From there can arise either mockery from his friends or interest in superpowers. In either case, the teenager may not feel comfortable because the difference at this age is marked by self-acceptance about the other. The adolescence of the aspiring medium may be the beginning of his or her isolation from friends.

2. "Accidental" Aspiring Medium

The "accidental" aspiring medium does not have this gift from birth, in most cases, it is in adulthood that it appears following a serious accident or illness (NDE or Near-Death Experience) or an extreme emotional shock.

The person has "brought back" a gift.

In this situation, the person feels even more helpless because they are not used to their new psychic abilities. In many cases, the person may start to panic about the management of his or her gift, so it is important to be surrounded by tolerant and receptive people.

An adult will be more eager to control his or her donation than a child or teenager and will also be less able to manage his or her donation quickly.

From the point of view of family and friends:

For or against, the aspiring medium's gift should be noted and categorized for personal development as well as the development and mastery of their gift.

3. Non-receptive family:

Whatever the reasons, education, religious or other, if the gift of the aspiring medium is found to be real and categorized, the non-receptive family will be in some way a hindrance to the proper emotional development, sometimes physical.

From the point of view of the spiritual gift itself is a bit like preventing someone from being left-handed and forcing him to be right-handed because the mass is right-handed.

Being left-handed a few decades ago was perceived quite badly by society in general since studies have been conducted on forcing a left-handed person to be right-handed and on the negative effects of this act on the child.

For a spiritual gift, the same is true, although not enough studies have been done in this sense at this time.

4. Non-receptive friends:

At the news of this gift, some friends will be very reluctant, or almost aggressive because they will be seized by an "uncontrollable" fear and will not accept what they do not understand. They will perceive them as someone strange, a Pariah that they must avoid.

The less resistant will remain friends with you but you will be subject to some mockery from them.

5. Receptive family:

A receptive family will encourage its aspiring psychic to develop and especially manage and control his or her gift.

A family that is too "receptive" will sometimes overly encourage their aspiring psychic not to manage their gift or master it but will tend to want to develop it too much and especially too quickly. I draw your attention to this point that I do not recommend, especially if the aspiring medium is a child or teenager.

Take the example of a person who has an average level of fitness, who runs 5 kilometers twice a week, and who decides to participate in a marathon within 15 days. (5k = approx. 30 min and a marathon 26 miles or 42 km = 4h) what do you think will happen to this person? probably he will not finish the marathon or worse this person could get injured.

It is the same for a spiritual gift, there are steps to respect the good progress of its management and mastery.

6. Receptive friends:

In general, receptive friends will perceive you as a superhero with superpowers, they will support you and will try to push you to master this gift.

Then there are also the good friends who don't understand what is going on but will support you willy-nilly, they will think ok he/she is weird, but I like him/her, he/she is my friend no matter what.

How to interact, then? What's next?

Listen to what the aspiring medium wants to share with you without any judgment, just listen

Ask him/her how you can help, most of the time listening attentively is appreciated and is experienced as a real relief

Gently remind him/her that not everyone is open and that it is not necessary to share this experience with people who are "not close or resistant.

It should be remembered that a true spiritual gift is experienced for the most part as an unwanted faculty, an insurmountable burden both for the aspiring medium who will feel overwhelmed and frightened and for those around him who will feel completely helpless in the face of such a situation.

The support of his close circle of family and/or friends is essential to the aspiring medium whatever his age on the emotional level as well as on his personal development and especially his balance. No one wants to live like a Pariah, especially because of something they did not choose, just as they do not choose the color of their skin or the time of their birth.

In a case for example where the aspiring medium is rejected by his family because of his spiritual gift, it will be difficult for him (unless he has great strength of character) to have a fast and balanced relationship or friendship and even more difficult without the coaching of a seasoned medium instructor.

The management and mastery of his spiritual gift are also important because it allow him to have a "normal" life and therefore to integrate into society.

Learning by yourself is possible but very long and not easy, and the result may not be there if you expect a mastery of your gift, but rather rough management. The question is do you want approximate, or do you want to have control over your gift and consequently on your life?

For if your answer is: I wish to master my spiritual gift, then you need a coach, a trainer who has already gone through the stage of being completely overwhelmed by his spiritual gift of medium and who has been able to transcend and master both on clairvoyance, clairaudience, and clairsentience and healing and who will take you where you want to go, that is to say, the total mastery of your gift according to your category and specialty.

Family and friends will also need coaching to know how they can interact with you in everyday life and especially how to support you, the "superhero with superpowers" because the superhero's loved ones must also have coaching.

Born clairvoyant (I can see), clairaudience and clairsentience were added (I can hear and feel physically) in my twenties, I had to face my 3 kinds of gifts, 2 of them in the same year. At that point in my life, I thought I was going to go crazy.

My family at the time also thought that I had lost my mind, their conviction was even greater because they both worked in psychiatry.

Growing up in a Catholic family where both of my parents worked in a psychiatric hospital and neither of them was psychic (aka Muggle) made me face the adversities that an aspiring psychic can encounter emotionally and spiritually. Your life is turned upside down and so are the lives of your loved ones.

That's why the Multiverse Radiance courses were created for pure mediums by a pure medium and for their family and friends.

I have designed a unique method, especially for the aspiring medium who wants to master his or her gift; the B.U.T.T.O.N method.

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At each stage of this method, specific and adapted exercises are given to the aspiring medium. As each aspiring medium is different because not the same specialty, each specialty is treated.

I share my expertise today for aspiring mediums but also for their families who are also going through a difficult and unknown time.